You've Got Mail

USA 1998

Reviewed by Charlotte O'Sullivan

Synopsis

Our synopses give away the plot in full, including surprise twists.

New Yorkers Joe and Kathleen enjoy a clandestine e-mail relationship. He is heir to Fox & Sons, a company with a chain of discount bookstores; she owns a tiny bookshop, threatened by his new store. But since they use pen names, neither knows the other's real identity. Joe and Kathleen are introduced at a publishing party. Joe's aggression overwhelms Kathleen. Via e-mail, Kathleen confides in Joe about the ruthless capitalist in her life, while he willingly gives advice. Employing the skills of her journalist boyfriend Frank, Kathleen begins a canny media campaign against Fox.

Increasingly enamoured of each other, the e-mail pair decide to meet. When Joe spies Kathleen at the pre-arranged restaurant he realises the truth. He approaches her anyway, but as Joe Fox. Kathleen insults him and goes home, thinking she's been stood up. Kathleen's shop is forced to close and at the same time she realises she doesn't love Frank. Joe undergoes a similar revelation and leaves his ambitious book-editor fiancée Patricia. Still keeping his e-mail identity secret, as himself he woos Kathleen, who is now writing a book. She grows to enjoy his company but when her e-mail pal asks to see her, she agrees. When Joe arrives, Kathleen realises the truth. The pair declare their love.

Review

You've Got Mail is neither a sequel nor prequel to Sleepless in Seattle, yet the two films appear unnaturally close. In both, Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks take the lead roles, the well-articulated sentence proves central to the romance, and sexual difference is expressed through cinema. (The Godfather substitutes for The Dirty Dozen as the perfect 'male' film this time.) The two films have something even more crucial in common, however: an obsession with perfect, dead women. Sleepless in Seattle, it could be argued, is about Virginia Woolf's old enemy, "the angel in the house", embodied by Hanks' ideal first wife Maggie. "She made everything beautiful... When I touched her it was like coming home, though to no home I'd ever known," he says of her. Their son is terrified he's "forgetting Mommy", so Hanks lists her qualities to keep the memory fresh. When her ghost appears, it's in a white dress.

You've Got Mail is slightly more original - this time it's the angel in the workplace with whom we're confronted, in the form of Kathleen's soft-focus old mother. Her ghost also pops up, full of tender and supportive grace. And she too is a feminine ideal, both sexually desirable (Joe's uncle Schuyler keeps saying how "enchanting" she was) and virtuous. She was always kind and fair to her employees, as well as a surrogate mother to her customers and their young children. Like Maggie, Kathleen's mother turns everywhere into a home - the female realm, which the realities of a brutal, competitive world can't reach.

What director and co-writer Nora Ephron makes apparent is how closely such a vision accords with a certain strand of feminism. Kathleen angrily tells "sad multi-millionaire" Joe, "No one will ever remember you, but they'll remember my mother." Kathleen's shop has been passed on to her by her mother and Kathleen intends to honour this tradition, declaring, "I'll leave [the shop] to my daughter," which makes her sound like a radical separatist.

But just as Sleepless in Seattle worked to free Hanks of his first wife's ghost and to allow him to love a career girl, You've Got Mail's aim is to drag Kathleen away from her mother and into the "male" marketplace. This is where Joe comes in. Ruthless in business, he can show Kathleen how to be "cruel", how to accept the push and shove of business. That this presents a direct threat to her mother's values is made clear. When Kathleen realises that Joe has won, she wails, "It's like my mother died all over again." For Ephron, it's not enough for saintly people to be dead - their ghosts have to be killed off, too. Only then can sinners flourish: Joe never renounces his daddy's business, while Kathleen's happy ending involves her accepting the services of a successful publisher - one of Patricia's friends, and therefore undoubtedly pushy.

You've Got Mail owes much to other films. A loose reworking of Ernst Lubitsch's The Shop around the Corner (1940), it begins like a feminist version of You Can't Take It with You (1938), Frank Capra's sprightly take on thoughtless businessmen and their love of monopolies - but where the latter shows eccentric 'little guy' Lionel Barrymore successfully beating off the horrors, You've Got Mail says if you can't beat 'em, join 'em: a Working Girl for the 90s.

The problem is that Ephron doesn't have the courage of her capitalist convictions. In order to distract us from her project, she does everything in her power to make Kathleen seem unthreatening, such as giving her a 'terrible cold' and making her increasingly witless (her ability not to put two and two together is awesome). But there's a more profound betrayal at work here. The quality of the writing is such that you actually don't believe Kathleen loves Joe. His wooing of her is rushed and his banter doesn't seem particularly charming (Hanks, always better playing good guys, looks uncomfortable here). And Kathleen herself becomes such a blank you begin to wonder if she isn't in a comatose state of denial.

You've Got Mail has much in common with Sleepless in Seattle but ultimately pales by comparison. The latter's brand of corn was slick and self-conscious; You've Got Mail's is merely confused. Ephron's second attempt to reject the angelic female sphere proves too much. The title punningly says it all - Ephron gives us male, more male than she can handle.

Credits

Producers
Lauren Shuler Donner
Nora Ephron
Screenplay
Nora Ephron
Delia Ephron
Based on the screenplay The Shop around the Corner by Samson Raphaelson
From the play Parfumerie by Miklos Laszlo
Director of Photography
John Lindley
Editor
Richard Marks
Production Designer
Dan Davis
Music
George Fenton
©Warner Bros.
Production Company
Warner Bros. presents a Lauren Shuler Donner production
Executive Producers
Delia Ephron
Julie Durk
G. Mac Brown
Co-producer
Donald J. Lee Jr
Associate Producer
Dianne Dreyer
Production Co-ordinator
Patty Willett
Unit Production Manager
Donald J. Lee Jr
Location Manager
Randy Sokol Sweeney
Post-production
Supervisor:
Tom Proper
Co-ordinator:
Carolyn Jean White
Assistant Directors
David Sardi
Maggie Murphy
Ken Brown
Script Supervisor
Dianne Dreyer
Casting
Francine Maisler
Associate:
Patricia Kerrigan
Computer Unit Director of Photography
Paul Gaffney
Camera Operator
Craig DiBona
CG Supervisor
Lauren DeNapoli
Technical Supervisor
Adam Hawkey
Special Effects
Steve Kirshoff
J.C. Brotherhood
Computer Programmers
Arnold Kaye
Kathleen King
Computer Co-ordinator
Elizabeth Segal
Video/Computer Playback Operator
Howard Weiner
Graphic Artist
Tim Arnold
Associate Editor
Tia Nolan
Art Directors
Ray Kluga
Beth Kuhn
Set Decorators
Susan Bode
Ellen Christiansen
Master Scenic Artist
Richard Ventre
Storyboard Artist
Brick Mason
Costume Designer
Albert Wolsky
Men's Wardrobe
Tommy Boyer
Women's Wardrobe
Cheryl Kilbourne-Kimpton
Key Make-up
Bernadette Mazur
Key Hair
Werner Sherer
Main Title Sequence Design/Animation
Walter Bernard
Milton Glaser
Mirko Ilic
Titles
Sony Pictures Imageworks Inc
Pacific Title/Mirage
Opticals
The Effects House
Buena Vista Imaging
Orchestrations
Jeff Atmajian
Music Supervisor
Nick Meyers
Music Score Mixer
John Richards
Music Consultant
Jeffrey Pollack
Soundtrack
"The Puppy Song", "Remember" by/performed by Harry Nilsson; "Dreams" by Noel Hogan, Dolores O'Riordan, performed by The Cranberries; "Rockin' Robin" by Jimmie Thomas, performed by Bobby Day; "Never Smile at a Crocodile" by Frank Churchill, Jack Lawrence, performed by The Paulette Sisters; "Splish Splash" by Bobby Darin, Jean Murray, performed by Bobby Darin; "Dummy Song" by Lew Brown, Billy Rose, Ray Henderson, performed by Louis Armstrong; "Tomorrow" from the Broadway musical "Annie" by Charles Strouse, Martin Charnin, performed by Hallee Hirsch; "River", "Both Sides Now" by Joni Mitchell; "Dream" by Johnny Mercer, performed by Roy Orbison; "Lonely at the Top" by/performed by Randy Newman; "Signed Sealed Delivered I'm Yours" by Stevie Wonder, Syreeta Wright, Lee Garrett, Lula Mae Hardaway, performed by Stevie Wonder; "I Guess the Lord Must Be in New York City" by Harry Nilsson, performed by Harry Nilsson, (2) Sinéad O'Connor; "Over the Rainbow" by E.Y. Harburg, Harold Arlen, performed by Harry Nilsson; "Anyone at All" by Carole King, Carole Bayer Sager, performed by Carole King; "I'm Gonna Sit Right Down and Write Myself a Letter" by Joe Young, Fred E. Ahlert, performed by Billy Williams
Choreography
Susan Stroman
Production Mixer
Christopher Newman
Re-recording Mixers
Lee Dichter
Ron Bochar
Supervising Sound Editor
Ron Bochar
Dialogue Editors
Nicholas Renbeck
Magdaline Volaitis
Sound Effects Editor
Lewis Goldstein
ADR
Mixer:
David Boulton
Thomas J. O'Connell
Editor:
Deborah Wallach
Foley
Artists:
Marko Costanzo
Jay Peck
Mixer:
Mathew Haasch
Supervising Editor:
Ben Cheah
Editors:
Kam Chan
Frank Kern
Consultant
Pat Braun
Stunt Co-ordinators
Jery Hewitt
Peter Bucossi
Animal Trainers
Birds and Animals Unlimited
Animal Actors
Cast
Tom Hanks
Joe Fox
Meg Ryan
Kathleen Kelly
Parker Posey
Patricia Eden
Jean Stapleton
Birdie
Dave Chappelle
Kevin Scanlon
Steve Zahn
George Pappas
Dabney Coleman
Nelson Fox
Greg Kinnear
Frank Navasky
Heather Burns
Christina
John Randolph
Schuyler Fox
Deborah Rush
Veronica Grant
Hallee Hirsh
Annabel Fox
Jeffrey Scaperrotta
Matt Fox
Cara Seymour
Gillian, Nelson's fiancée
Katie Finneran
Maureen, the nanny
Michael Badalucco
Charlie, lift attendant
Veanne Cox
Miranda Margulies, children's author
Bruce Jay Friedman
Vince Mancini
Sara Ramirez
Rose, Zabars cashier
Howard Spiegel
Henry, irate Zabars shopper
Diane Sokolow
Julie Kass
Zabars shoppers
Reiko Aylesworth
Thanksgiving guest
Katie Sagona
young Kathleen Kelly
Kathryn Meisle
Cecilia Kelly
Nina Zoie Lam
Sidne Anne, TV reporter
Maggie Murphy
theatre patron
Michelle Blakely
Meredith White
Dianne Dreyer
Julie Galdieri
Leila Nichols
shoppers
Mary Kelly
Fox Books shopper
Chris Messina
Fox salesperson
Ronobir Lahiri
man at Café Lalo
André Sogliuzzo
waiter at Café Lalo
Peter A. Mian
capeman at Starbucks
Richard Cohen
Enzo Angileri
Starbucks customers
Nick Brown
juggler
Ann Fleuchaus
Sarah Mancini
Neil Bonin
Bill McHugh
party guests
Santiago Quinoñes
decorator
Lynn Grossman
Yvette Fox
Dolores Sirianni
mother of twins
Nicole Bernadette
florist
Bonnie
Clovis
Brinkley the dog
Lucy
dog in elevator
Certificate
PG
Distributor
Warner Bros Distributors (UK)
10,732 feet
119 minutes 15 seconds
Dolby digital/DTS digital/SDDS
Colour by
Technicolor
Last Updated: 20 Dec 2011