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USA 2000
Reviewed by Kay Dickinson
Our synopses give away the plot in full, including surprise twists.
Chicago, two years ago. Driving home from a charity dinner with husband Bob, Elizabeth Rueland is killed in a car crash. Her heart is transplanted into a woman called Grace. A year later, Bob is reluctantly persuaded by his friend Charlie to go on a double date. They dine at O'Reilly's, an Irish-Italian restaurant co-owned by Grace's grandfather. Bob quickly realises that he dislikes his date Marsha and has more rapport with their waitress, Grace. He leaves early, forgetting to take his mobile phone. When he returns to pick it up, he asks Grace on a date.
The romance blossoms. Grace is nervous about consummating their relationship because she is ashamed of her surgical scars. On the night she has chosen to explain her medical history to Bob, she stumbles across a letter she anonymously sent him via an agency to thank him for his wife's organ donation. She leaves without explanation. The following day, Grace tells him she has Elizabeth's heart. He leaves her and she flies to Italy for a painting holiday. Before long,
Chicago, two years ago. Driving home from a charity dinner with husband Bob, Elizabeth Rueland is killed in a car crash. Her heart is transplanted into a woman called Grace. A year later, Bob is reluctantly persuaded by his friend Charlie to go on a double date. They dine at O'Reilly's, an Irish-Italian restaurant co-owned by Grace's grandfather. Bob quickly realises that he dislikes his date Marsha and has more rapport with their waitress, Grace. He leaves early, forgetting to take his mobile phone. When he returns to pick it up, he asks Grace on a date.
The romance blossoms. Grace is nervous about consummating their relationship because she is ashamed of her surgical scars. On the night she has chosen to explain her medical history to Bob, she stumbles across a letter she anonymously sent him via an agency to thank him for his wife's organ donation. She leaves without explanation. The following day, Grace tells him she has Elizabeth's heart. He leaves her and she flies to Italy for a painting holiday. Before long, he makes the journey to Europe and successfully wins her back.
he makes the journey to Europe and successfully wins her back.With its big-band theme song (the same as the film's title), the sudden death of Bob's beloved wife, an operation in which her heart is transplanted into the sickly Grace, and its grief-stricken leading man, you don't need to be an aficionado of romantic comedies to recognise the generic world to which Return to Me belongs. Having established her debt to such films as Sleepless in Seattle and Moonstruck in the first 15 minutes, debut director Bonnie Hunt doesn't offer any great surprises - the film builds to a happy-ever-after finale which inevitably requires Grace's newly acquired palpitating muscle to do a whole lot more than pump blood from A to B. But it does offer a share of incidental pleasures along the way.
As with so many romantic comedies, it's the script (co-written by Hunt and Don Lake) which really carries the film, dexterously balanced between the cloying sentiment of, say, Stepmom - which similarly dealt with grief and romance in US suburbia - and the all-too-easy cynicism of such recent films as Happiness and Your Friends & Neighbors. That said, there are some rather syrupy slow-motion flashbacks to Elizabeth, whose death prompts the family dog to pine for her by the door in the hope that she'll return. The film's central hangout, the Irish-Italian restaurant O'Reilly's, also houses a cringe-worthy roster of characters from both The Quiet Man school of Irishness and television pizza commercials. Thankfully Grace (played by Minnie Driver) is on hand to sprinkle a fair few spicy wisecracks around this otherwise characterless milieu. But the film's liveliest moments are more reliably provided by Grace's tender-yet-cynical friends Joe (Chicago personified, Jim Belushi), Megan (Grace's confidante, played by Hunt herself) and their Catholic families whom they both vainly try to protect from their cursing and canoodling.
Even the undercharged charisma of David Duchovny as Bob is well cushioned by the film's refreshingly zesty script. "It's like a garden!" he gasps with impressive observational skill as he takes stock of Grace's garden, before collapsing into everyone's worst nightmare of flirting ineptitude. He similarly bolts the door on any pity we might feel for him when Grace confronts him with the truth about her surgery: "Phew, I thought you were going to tell me you used to be a man!" he exclaims with relief. Duchovny doesn't quite get away with more demanding emotions such as grief or frustrated wrath, but thanks to the kindly script and some deft, sensitive direction these shortcomings manage to pass themselves off as assets. As Richard Gere admirably demonstrated in Pretty Woman, a clever romantic comedy can turn stiffness (and a pair of endearingly squinty eyes) to its advantage. In Return to Me, Duchovny's actorly range - a weakness in most other films - exudes coy slightness rather than limitation. Whether he's playing awkward or is simply being awkward hardly matters here.